Carol McDade, 28, has been stymied by her Fetlife profile for two days. McDade, who enjoys a wide range of “kinky role play” finds it difficult to choose been the “dominant” and “submissive” moniker for her online description.
“I kinda think I am dominant, but I also like to bottom sometimes. Owning someone seems like too much work, but I do like having multiple play partners. Sometimes I can go for weeks without playing at all,” McDade told The Daily Flogger, “and times like that I really question if I am even kinky.”
Ultimately, McDade settled on “switch” as the right term for her.
“I’ll probably end up changing it again, but for now it describes me pretty well. At least I think so. Well, maybe not. I really should put dominant, but I am not that way all the time.”